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a day in our homeschool, part 1: our mornings.

I realize that while I mention our school days quite often, I haven't given a very detailed view of what our days actually consist of lately.  I believe that the last time I gave a full run-down of our day was in 2016, in our Cedar Falls house, and to be honest with you, I have been putting off doing another one because going back and looking at those photos just makes me miss our cute (bright! sunshiny!) house and my tinier-than-now babies, so then I get depressed and lose steam.

But I think the time has come - a lot has changed in our days since then!  Our homeschool, St. Anne's on the Hill, is now in its eleventh week of the current school year, so we're nearing the end of our first trimester.  Our schedule seems to finally be ironing itself out and our days running more smoothly, though the transition was pretty rough!


This Year


This year, the big kids are working through AmblesideOnline's Year 4 (5th Grade) schedule, a notoriously difficult leap from Year 3 for Ambleside families across the board.  I knew it was going to be intense, but have been surprised by how long it took to settle in!  However, now that we've adjusted, it is actually going pretty smoothly and doesn't feel too heavy.

The little kids are in Year 1 (1st-2nd Grade) and doing an actual structured school routine for the first time.  We'd been casually working on phonics, sounding out words, writing and early math for quite some time, but I wanted to wait until Finneas was 7 (and Laurelai, 6) to start them in formal lessons.  If I can give you one piece of homeschool advice, it's this: do nothing formal before age 6.  No preschool, no mandatory school time, until at least age 6 (and 7 is even better for boys).  I know you won't listen to me, but it's good advice.

So, to sum up - two kids are in 5th grade, two are in 1st/2nd grade, and I have a preschooler, toddler, and nursing infant.  Brace yourselves for a little bit of crazy.

Let's start with our morning routine!


8:00 Wake Up, Bible Time, Big Kids Work Independently


Yes, I wake up at 8:00.  Yes, my kids get up earlier than that.  Here is how I guide them through starting their days when I say so.  One change has been made to our previous routine, however, and that is that the big kids get out their independent schoolwork once they wake up.  They prefer just getting started so that they still have plenty of time to play in the afternoon.

The things they're responsible for taking care of independently are:

*2 math worksheets
*Cursive handwriting
*Copywork
*Spelling
*Reading for 30 minutes from assigned free reads
*History reading and accompanying written narration
*Spanish
*Piano practice (this has to wait until everyone is awake!)
*Music theory

It sounds like a lot, but they're usually able to get it all done in about 2.5 hours total, including time after breakfast when I'm working with the younger kids.  They're typically done with all of this part of their schoolwork before lunch.  Later this week, I'm hoping to post on what resources we use for these subjects, and how the kids work on them independently.





While they're working, the little kids are playing.  I get up, make my bed (a consistent habit I'm trying to cultivate), and read my Bible.  I also check the schedule and to-do list that I write out the previous evening to help me visualize the goals and obligations for the day ahead.


You don't have to tell me twice that I need curtains in here.



I'm almost done with my Bible read-through plan this year - the first time in years that I'll have actually gotten all the way through!



I try to plan each day the evening before, putting together a schedule and to-do list, and thinking through what I'll be making for dinner.  It has made a huge difference in the smoothness of our days!  The layout of this Day Designer planner from Target is just perfect.


9:00 Breakfast and Chores


When breakfast is ready, the kids are responsible for making sure their 'before breakfast' jobs are done before coming to the table - getting dressed, brushing their teeth, making their beds, and cleaning up their rooms.  Big kids put away their schoolwork so we have room at the table to eat.


I keep timers with our toothbrushes to make sure they're brushing for an appropriate amount of time without needing me to hover.




There's always one kid who finishes up way before the rest!


Once I get Callista up for the day, the tornado begins.  Luckily, she plays well in her bed while she waits for breakfast.  The big kids are instructed to not get her out early unless there's a fire. ;)


I make breakfast easy on myself by limiting our meal options.  Each morning, I serve either eggs or baked oatmeal.  It takes the guesswork out of meal planning that early in the day, keeps grocery costs consistent, and limits whining about the food.

After they're finished eating, the kids are dismissed to do their after-breakfast chores (which I'll post about in more detail at some point) and exercises (which I posted about here).  With any free time they have after this before we begin Morning Basket, they either get back to work on independent schoolwork, or they play or draw.





10:30 Morning Basket


This is a new routine to us this year.  I've attempted it before, but as it was never really necessary before now, it always slipped through the cracks.  This year, I find it's such a helpful tool in getting through a lot of school work in a little bit of enjoyable family time.  Again, I'll be posting further details on this soon, but the main gist is that we all get together for about an hour to enjoy some reading and riches that all family members can appreciate and enjoy.


It is truly amazing what all can be covered in a little over an hour!





11:45 Little Kids Work With Mom


After morning basket, the big kids work on anything they have left (usually piano practice and Spanish) while I work with the little kids on Math, Handwriting, and Reading.  This usually takes about 45 minutes total.  I'll give you a rundown soon on the resources I use for teaching first and second grade!





At this point, it is around 12:30 - time to make and serve lunch, and jump into the second half of our day, which I'll chronicle tomorrow!


What Do I Do with the Littlest Kids?


I imagine you may be wondering what our younger kids do during this time.  Juniper (6 mo.) is up with us at times, and at other times is napping in my room.  Her nap schedule is more of a nap routine, and doesn't fall at set times.  She wakes up for the day, I nurse her, and then she's up for about an hour or an hour-and-a-half.  When she starts to fuss, I lay her down, and she sleeps for 2-2.5 hours.  We follow this cycle through the day.  I just nurse her while I do whatever else we're in the middle of, and she plays on the floor near me while she's awake.

Rocco (4 years) is typically found playing, either by himself, or with Callista, or with a bigger kid who isn't currently working.  He's pretty easygoing and doesn't need much redirection or hypervigilant supervision.



But... Callista.  Callista is a wild card.  Some days she plays just fine by herself or with Rocco, or is happy to just snuggle me while I work with the older kids.  Other days, not so much.  On her crabby days, she can be incredibly disruptive, and is often capable of finding the most unsafe activity she possibly can if left unsupervised.  So I allow up to an hour of our morning routine to be dedicated to independent playtime in her bed - either during Morning Basket, or during my work with the Little Kids, whichever seems to be the most helpful that day.


Tomorrow I'll tell you about our afternoons!

'what's up' weekly.

Happy Friday!  I'm excited to jump right into telling you all about the week - it has been fun and full!

On Friday, we spent the afternoon getting dressed up - our friends Meghan and Josiah had told us they wanted to surprise us, and all we needed to do was get a sitter and dress up fancy; they'd pick us up and we'd have an evening out.  When they arrived, they revealed that they were taking us to the Navy and Marine Corps Birthday Ball!  (Not to leak sensitive military information or anything, but I can say they don't not cut the birthday cake with an actual sword.  That is my kind of party.)  It was such an honor to be invited, and we had so much fun.  It was a privilege to get to attend, and to get to see Josiah in his element.  We have been so blessed by our friendship with them.



On Saturday, I took my weekly Time Out (as I call it, because when you're a mom, you call everything by its kid-related name; toilets are now always referred to as potties, stomachs are now tummies; adults are now grownups, and I talk about myself in the third person like my name is actually Mommy.  This is all just standard reality now.  So it only makes sense that time removed from the family is called a Time Out.  Ironically, I'm the only one in the family who receives time-outs.)  I went to the library, as it's getting too cold out to sit at Shelter Gardens.  I love this time to read my bible, clear my head, plan my week and realign my priorities and my focus.

When I got home, I wrote most of this week's blogs because, oh, yeah, I BLOGGED THIS WEEK!  Maybe I'm prepared to re-enter the world of internet interaction.  (Or, maybe just kind of.  I actually put locks on my phone this week because I am just too distracted by social media.  My phone is locked before noon, and after that I have 30 minutes of social media time per day.  It has been SO good for me - stupidly hard, but good.)


Van Voorst girls know how to party on a Saturday.


On Monday, we celebrated Rocco's actual birthday!  I cooked all his requested meals - pancakes for breakfast, cheese board for lunch, and PB & J for dinner.


This is literally just normal lunch - crackers, cheese, meat, fruit - but it feels so much fancier on a platter.


I also dragged all the kids out with me for a haircut appointment.  It was not ideal, but I really needed a haircut... and I really needed to have my hair toned after getting it highlighted two weeks ago.  It was brassy like nothing you've ever witnessed.  I wanted to have it all done in one appointment, but the first time I went, I had to leave before getting it toned, with my hair wet and everything, to get home to nurse Juniper, and therefore had to come back to finish what we started.  I'm not sure if I will ever fully acclimate to how difficult simple things can be with kids.  Luckily, my kids make my job really easy, but the nature of kids is just pure inefficiency sometimes.



On Tuesday, I ended up staying home from Connection Group because the kids were coming down with a mild bug - low grade fever, rumbly tummies, headaches.  On Wednesday, we tried to get caught up on some school, and Penelope spent the afternoon baking with Grandma Linda, an amazing older woman who has taken our family under wing.

Also on Wednesday, JUNIPER STARTED CRAWLING?  Yes, that's a question mark.  I still have no idea how this is happening.  She is still just a tiny infant.  We have only had her with us for a few months.  She has no business being mobile.  Luckily, she still just crawls in circles, so she doesn't actually go anywhere yet, but I am still astounded.  There was really no head's up, either - no rocking back and forth on all fours, or planking, or army crawling.  She just figured out how to get her knees up under her, and then a few days later she was like, "I think I'll move my arms forward, like this, and then get my legs going, too..." and then she was motoring around in slow, choppy little spirals.



She doesn't look at all repentant that she's shattering my visions for her eternal youth.


Yesterday, we were supposed to go the planetarium, yet again.  Perhaps if you've got a steel-trap memory, you will take note that this is the third time we've scheduled this.  The first time, we got snowed out.  The second time, I was in labor.  The third time is supposed to be the charm, but no banana this time either: the kids were still sick.  Laurelai seems to have been hit the hardest.  The other kids just had a mild case, lasting a few hours each, but she has been sick for over 48 hours and is still not feeling well.  No appetite, difficulty getting warm, a bad headache.  Poor little mama.  Baths seem to help.



So anyway.  We cancelled our plans and stayed home to do 'normal' school, much to everyone's delight. (Not.)  It was for the best, though - I'm running a bit behind on our schoolwork, and November is chock-full of appointments, so any opportunity to get or stay caught up will be a blessing in the next few weeks.

If everyone is feeling up to it today, we'll be getting Friday school under our belts, then we'll be headed to Shelter for lunch.  I have a few seasonal projects I'm trying to get on top of - switching to winter bedding, getting all the kids' wardrobes switched and washed and stored, and I've started Christmas shopping, which I hope to have done before the end of the month.



Laurelai has joined me in my perusal of seasonal catalogs, against the counsel of Penelope that "it's all just Vanity Fair."



And, in case you were wondering, there's no need to panic - I can assure you that all the kids are still just as adorable as can be, in case there was any doubt.



Rocco, reading the Jesus Storybook Bible to Juniper.



Callista, having stolen yet another item that doesn't belong to her and looking exactly 0% remorseful.



"Independent play time" for Callista almost always involves getting into a bunch of stuff that isn't hers.  Like sitting on someone else's bed and digging through their personal things.  For instance.



She is dang lucky that she's elite-level Cute, or she would've been chucked out a window a long time ago.



Oh, no; she's definitely not a stinker.  What would make you think that?

Well, I have a few good books calling my name, so I'm going to go log some quality time in that sphere of life.  Bring on the weekend!

todd's 41st birthday!

The end of October kickstarts our holiday season around here, beginning with Todd's birthday, Halloween/Reformation Day, and Rocco's birthday.  This year, we also added in Juniper's dedication ceremony at church, so we've had a lot to celebrate!  I just love this time of year.

We started our celebrations with Todd's forty-first birthday!  (Happy birthday to the love of my life!  You just keep getting better and better.)  We ordered Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner, and then had strawberry shortcake for dessert.



Callista felt a bit slighted that she did not receive the first piece of shortcake herself.


It's as though no one cared or acknowledged that this day was supposed to be all about her.  Toddlers are a truly oppressed people group.


Through the first stretch of our dating and marriage, Todd and I carved pumpkins every year for his birthday (we did it on our first date!), but it has fallen through the cracks the last year or two.  So this year I was determined to make it happen!  The kids and I picked out pumpkins up at the Amish, and Todd got pumpkin carving sets on sale at the local grocery place, which meant Atticus and Penelope got to carve, rather than paint, their pumpkins for the first time ever.  The younger ones all still painted theirs.






Because the big kids carved theirs, we had seeds to roast this year, and I heated some apple cider.  (Pumpkin seeds are one of those snacks that you look forward to all year, and then you eat so many in one night that you need a break from them for about 364 more days.)



After our treat, the kids performed the play they'd been preparing just for Todd - "Thomas Cranmer: The Theological Sage."  Penelope played a truly wicked Bloody Mary, Finneas was her groveling servant Peter, and Atticus died a brave martyr's death as Thomas Cranmer.  Rocco's only line was to introduce himself ("I'm Philip.") and he lived in the bathroom.  Laurelai, also a peasant, contributed by answering Atticus' question, "Who is yonder woman?" (Lo, it was Queen Mary.)  All in all, two very enthusiastic thumbs up.  Fine holiday fun!

Todd also opened gifts the kids got him.  Atticus wrote him a devotional, Laurelai got him Oreos (which are so patently "Todd" that the kids just refer to them as "Daddy Cookies"), and Penelope got him a bag of Skittles.  Finneas wrote this out, and it took him about an hour - he really put his best effort into it!



It says, "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth."


Callista was insistent that everything was a present for her, most especially the foodstuffs.





(I did actually have the forethought to get him gifts... one of which still hasn't come in the mail, even though I paid express shipping and it is now two weeks since his birthday, so I haven't given it to him yet.  I have a call into customer service, and they better believe that it's going on their permanent record that they put a damper on Todd Van Voorst's festivities.  They don't know who they're messing with.)

In all, it was such a fun day to celebrate our favorite person!  We love you so much, Todd, and are grateful that you were born those (many, many) years ago!

sausage and cabbage skillet: your new favorite meal.

FRIENDS.  I am about to make your life so, so good.

What if I told you I had a recipe for the cheapest, easiest, quickest, tastiest, most veggie-filled dish your kids will ever love?  How much would you pay for something like that?  $100? $200? (Can you tell I was a telemarketer for a while?)  Well, today, I'm letting my golden recipe go for just three easy intallments of zero The Bucks.

In all seriousness, my claims are not inflated.  This is one of our favorite meals, and every last kid in the place loves it, including the pickiest eaters.  It involves two cheap ingredients, a few spices and one pan. Prep is nonexistent, and cleanup is nothing.  Ready to jump in?



Sausage and Cabbage Skillet
Total cook time: 20 minutes

Ingredients:
1 bag coleslaw mix* ($1.50 - $3 at Walmart)
1 lb ground pork sausage (any kind - we love mild or Italian) ($2 - $3 at Walmart)
Seasonings of your choice - I use 1-2 tsp salt, 1-2 tsp garlic powder, a dash of dried minced onion, and some pepper, all to taste

Directions:
Heat a large skillet over medium heat (I prefer my 12" cast iron skillet!) and brown your sausage until thoroughly cooked.  Drain sausage and place in a large bowl, leaving the fat in the pan.  (If there's not much fat, add a little cooking oil to the pan, to total about 2 tablespoons or thereabouts).

Add the coleslaw to the pan, season with your favorite seasonings, and sautee until wilted and warm, but still crunchy (5-7 minutes).  Add to the bowl with the sausage, toss together, and serve.

*You can use any coleslaw mix.  We switch it up, sometimes using regular coleslaw, other times using broccoli slaw, and other times using a "Super Blend" sold at Walmart that has Napa cabbage, shredded brussels sprouts, kale, and other shredded yummies.  In fact, because we double this recipe when I make it, I often use a couple different kinds at once.  The kids like them all.  The broccoli slaw is the crunchiest option, and the regular coleslaw ends up the softest, if that helps.


This was made with broccoli slaw and Power Blend, and mild pork sausage.



A quick note:  This is a very low-carb meal, so I often like to serve it with something easy on the side for the kids.  Regardless of what current diet fads tell you, growing and developing bodies need fat, protein and healthy carbohydrates at each meal.  Milk is pretty high in carbs, so I sometimes don't sweat it too much, but my biggest kids prefer water with their meals, and they have the highest calorie needs anyway, so I will try to figure out how to get easy carbs into them when I serve this.  An apple or some bread and butter are easy peasy options.

my little halloweenies.

As everyone and their mom has already posted a million pictures of their kids in Halloween costumes, I figured I should probably jump in and do the same now that you're totally sick of that noise.  I'm nothing if always fashionably late.  But it works in my favor - now that everyone else's kids are out of your system, you can really focus on just how adorable my kids are! (Joking/notjoking.)

My mom makes all of their costumes, which has been quite an undertaking over the years.  Luckily, it seems we're now getting to a point where most of the kids have previously made costumes they can wear!  Even the bigger kids didn't need new costumes this year, as last year's still fit.  Juniper did need one, as we weirdly didn't have one in her size, and my mom had promised Finneas that he could pick out a new one for himself, as he was kind of getting sick of hand-me-downs.

So, I introduce to you...


...a fisherman, Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz, a baby mouse, a ninja, the Hamburglar (minus the mask, as it made her cry.  Halloween is hard), World's Saddest Garden Gnome, and a Buckingham Palace guard.

Callista made it known that she found the beard neither feminine nor comfortable, and altogether unsatisfactory.



Once we got to Shelter Gardens to trick or treat, she was at least partly convinced her world wasn't ending, though she still looked pretty uncertain.



Every year, Shelter hosts a trick or treating event on the grounds for employees' families.  I love it, because it's during the daytime so photos are better, I don't have to figure out how to get all the kids dressed in costumes at dinnertime like on Halloween night, and it doesn't interfere with our Reformation Day celebrations.  I think this might be our main Halloween activity from here on out.

Another "plus" to the day was that my parents and my sister were all in town anyway for Rocco's birthday party and Juniper's dedication, so we all got to trick or treat together!  Unfortunately, it was rainy and cold, but we braved it.  (And Halloween night ended up being even more miserable, so in a weird way we lucked out only having to bundle up this much.)



Everyone, meet my beautiful niece, World's Prettiest NonVanVoorstBaby.


Juniper was pretty happy...



...until the face painting booth.  This was just the final straw.



She was happier once I carried her wrapped in my coat.



The other kids were better sports about it.





Rocco got a couple new big teeth.



Other than just getting candy, there were lots of activities available for the kids to participate in, like tossing a ring around a witch's hat, which Penelope and Laurelai slayed, and playing Plinko, which Atticus enjoyed and was really good at.  (It was fun for him to find something he was excited to do - I think he's getting to the age where he's starting to feel a little self-conscious about participating in Halloween.)




There's a big pot of candy toward the end of the walk that is "guarded" by a big hanging spider toy.  A guy in a mascot costume raises and lowers the spider at random times. (Weird sentence.)  Last year, Penelope was way too freaked out to try getting any candy, but before we left the house this year, she said, "I'm not going to be a chicken this time.  I'm going to be brave by the spider!" And she was!




HH from the VV's!


rocco is four today!

Happy birthday, Littlest Brother!



You, my friend, are nothing but a joy.  You are cheerful and accommodating.  You are helpful and sweet.  You follow the big boys around and 'man up' the best you can in order to keep up.  You like playing soldiers and knights... and also Paw Patrol.  And also sometimes Barbies.  You have so many friends around here, all with their own favorite games, that you like to keep your options open.  You never live a dull moment!

You are a big fan of Juniper, and often stop in your play to go talk to, cuddle and play with her.  Sometimes you get kind of rough, shaking her head around and jiggling her body.  We're working on being gentle with babies :).  But she doesn't seem to mind - she loves you as much as you love her!

You are Rest.  You are sweetness and comfort and a crooked little smile.  Every night after you brush your teeth, you come and ask me with bared and gritted teeth, "DO DEEZ LOOK CLEEEEEEEN?"  You are very specific about what you think makes you look handsome, and prefer not to leave the house not looking your best.  You like your hair to be "Atticus Hair," which I still have not gotten entirely right, according to your specifications.  (I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong!)  You are always ready with a hug and a sweet word to say about how pretty you think I am.



You often ask when you're going to be a big boy, which I love, because it is such a little boy thing to say.  You are, in your words, "a little big boy."  And I love that about you.

You've still got Toddler Hands and Toddler Bod - big, soft, chubby hands and a big, round belly.  But you don't let that fool anyone - you are strong.  You can do full-on pushups and sit ups, and have formidable ab muscles.  At your recent well check, you were the first and only Van Voorst to measure larger on the weight chart than on the height chart.  You are solid.  I am confident you are going to use your strength and sturdiness to great ends - you already do such a good job of serving, providing and protecting!



We all love you so much, Rocco.  You are one of my favorite people on earth, and I'm so glad God gave me you!


'what's up' weekly... kind of. not really. but Juniper has big news.

Well, well, well.  Fancy meeting me here.  I know it seems like the last place I show my face anymore (or, anyway, my face for radio, as I mostly just let my words be my face around here, and thank the Lord for that.  Did you know you should start using anti-aging products before the age of thirty-three, or your neck will start to fall off?  If you did, that makes one of us).

I have a lot to tell you about - two weeks of a lot, to be exact.  I tried uploading the photos, but to be honest... there were seventy of them, which some people (e.i., duds) might think is too many.  SO, here's my plan: I am going to blog every weekday in November.  Yes, I know, it's a stretch goal, and I often am not as consistent as I'd like to be, but I have a plan to make this happen.  I'll go back to sharing photos, thoughts and recipes gradually instead of just dumping everything out on Fridays.  Sound good?  Sounds good to me!

In the meantime, I'll leave you with some of our cutest/saddest/most optimistic news.  Juni turned the Big 0-6 recently, and we are starting to transition to a more sustainable sleeping arrangement.





Long, long ago, she had been sleeping through the night consistently - twelve hour stretches, every night.  But then that dastardly four-month sleep regression hit, and we still haven't recovered.  She was back to eating every 1.5-2 hours overnight.  And it wasn't like she was going to start soothing herself back to sleep anytime soon - she would wake up in the middle of the night, and because she could see me over the top of the bassinet, she would just stare at me and cry until I fed her.

So this past week, we moved some things around.  Rocco moved out of the girls' room into the basement bedroom with the bigger boys, Callista moved into a pack and play in the girls' room, and Juni got the nursery.


See her in there?  Doesn't she look so tiny?


I was so worried that in moving her in there, she'd feel alone overnight.  After all, she's six months and she knows when I leave the room, and she knows to look for me in the middle of the night.  She surely would be aware of the change, and probably wouldn't be happy about it.  But I was so wrong - she has loved it.  She doesn't cry when I lay her down or leave the room, and she's been sleeping so much more soundly, often going 3-4 hours at a stretch.



We still have a ways to go before I would say we're in an ideal sleep routine, but progress is being made, and we're both super happy about it!