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YOU FAILED ME, YOU GUYS.  I told you at the end of last week that I needed you to be wishing me All the Luck as I ventured out to drive the big van on my own for the first time last Friday.  You were supposed to be looking out for me.  You were supposed to be praying for me.  But I suspect you weren't, because I ALREADY ENDED UP BACKING INTO SOMEONE.  I blame you for this.



Long story short, a friend watched the kids for me so I could get some baby prep errands done.  I went to Aldi and got all cocky about my parking skills.  From there, I went to Target, where I grabbed a coffee, did some browsing, and then, oh yeah, hit a car.  A gal was parked behind me, I didn't see her AT ALL because this van is a behemoth and visibility is nil, and I totally punctured her bumper with our tow ball.  (No damage to our van, obviously, because again, this thing is massive.)  Luckily, she was right there and I was able to give her my info, but dang.  This isn't exactly what I'd call a good omen.

I haven't driven it since.



But let's move on to happier news, like the fact that I bought - and prepared - ninety-three pounds of meat that day.  I made about 20 lbs of chicken breasts, 20 lbs of ground beef, 10 lbs of chicken drumsticks, 10 lbs of chicken thighs, four whole roasting chickens, and an entire ham, all in the name of freezer prep.  I also soaked and cooked 5 lbs of beans and 2 lbs of rice.  I'm in the final stages of getting it all squared away, with chicken carcasses simmering away into broth as I type this.  It has been exhausting, but I'm feeling good that I've at least done something preparatory for the baby stage that is about to hit.

That all is just Friday.  This week was a real doozy, so I have lots more to share.  Settle in.  Get good and comfy.

On Saturday morning, Penelope threw me a baby shower.  We baked brownies, which we then ate for lunch alongside gummy bears and Boursin with Nut Thins.  (All gluten-free, all favorites around here.  She even made sure to find dairy-free brownie mix so Callista could join the fun.)  Then I took a post-food nap, because that's just who I am.  Then we opened gifts and played Baby Pictionary.






Setting a sassy example for my daughters, as usual.




Penelope purchased the fabric and tied this blanket herself as a gift for the new baby.




I spent Saturday afternoon at my friend Lynna's.

Sunday was luckily pretty normal - church, McDonald's for lunch, naps, cereal for dinner, Biblica (the house church the kids have started leading each week - I'll have to fill you in soon!), Narnia Club, and family movie night.  This week we watched Matilda.

On Monday, Atticus spent the day in Kansas City with Todd, getting his braces tightened, watching his favorite World War II movies in the van, and eating at Pizza Ranch for lunch.  He has really loved the special days that his orthotropics appointments have provided.




Tuesday was my birthday.  I had fully anticipated it just being another day - homeschool, Connection Group in the evening, you know the drill.  But I'd gotten a massage appointment scheduled for that afternoon, which was such a blessing as I've been in so much pain lately with this pregnancy, and then Penelope organized a gift-giving ceremony in the evening.  It ended up being a really nice day.



Additionally, our Connection Group threw us a surprise baby shower in the evening.  It meant so much that they would think to do something like that - I can sometimes be tempted to feel like people forget to celebrate after the second or third baby, or they see it as unnecessary, and that really bums me out.  Each new life is so precious, and it's so amazing when other people get excited about celebrating each individual baby, no matter how many have come before them in the family!

On Wednesday, I finally got in to have my hair cut.  (It was high time - I hadn't had it cut since last June!)  I knew I wouldn't be able to get in for a few months once the baby was born, so it was kind of now or never.  Then on Wednesday evening, we headed over to a friend's farm for a grill-out, since it was in the 70's.  This weather, friends, is what I signed on for when I moved to Missouri.  I can get behind this weather.  I'll hopefully get up enough gumption to post more on this fun night next week.





Yesterday was pretty low-key at our house: we did school, and a gal from the gardening organization that's been helping me with my garden the last few years came over to bring plants and seeds for me to get in the ground.  Unfortunately, it was pouring rain, so none of it has actually made it into the ground yet, but hopefully in the next few days.

Atticus' day yesterday was much more eventful, though: our friend Josiah is in an officer training program for the Marines, and he offered to take Atticus out for a training day: he learned about 'buddy rushing,' they played 'cover and conceal,' he learned about gun safety and using a compass to find his way back to a familiar place when he's lost.  He even got to wear face paint and camouflage.  He was in HEAVEN.  Then after their big afternoon, Josiah and his wife brought pizza over for dinner and we got to hear all about the events of the day.  It was such a blessing to Atticus - I honestly can't get over what an amazing gift it was for him, straight from the hand of the God who knows him, and loves him, and delights in bringing him joy.





And that was our week!  In updates, Callista's doing much better - the salmonella and E. coli ran their course, and things with her digestion are starting to swing back to a sense of normal again.  Not great still, but at least normal.  We're starting to add dairy back in slowly to see if it messes with her, but so far things have seemed pretty good, so that's super promising.


Yes, this is how much she eats by herself.  For firsts.  She had second helpings after this plateful of chicken soup was emptied.




I'm now 37 weeks along and feeling every single bit of it.  The massage didn't do much of what I was hoping it would for my leg cramping, so I'm still not sleeping at night, and I feel just massive.  Ahhh, pregnancy is such a beautiful time.



And that was our very full (yet again!) week!

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This has been a whirlwind week.  With the pregnancy drawing to a close, I feel like time is just speeding up, and I'm trying to cram a bunch of stuff in before the baby is born, so the schedule has really filled up in anticipation.

We started off the week with a visit from my parents.  We have a lot of March birthdays around here (Finneas' big day is the 6th, followed by my stepDoug's on the 17th, and mine on the 26th) so they came down to do a big weekend celebration for everyone at once (though I think Doug got the short end of the stick, as you'll quickly see).

For my birthday, they helped their verrrrrrry non-handy daughter hang some much-needed shelving in the laundry room.  Until this weekend, this is what my overflow pantry storage looked like:



Yikes much?

Atticus had a ball getting to help out, and even Finneas held up a wall for a couple of minutes (that was enough to scratch the handyman itch for him).







We took a break midday on Saturday to celebrate Finneas' birthday with a Star Wars-and-tacos party.  (I keep trying to make a mashup word in my mind - Luke Skytaco-r?  No, that's stupid - but it's just not coming to me.  Any help, punny friends?)  We ate a little food, opened a few presents, you know the drill.





And as for Doug's celebration... we, um, let him hang my shelves.  How's that for a birthday present?  (I would just like to issue my formal apology here, Doug.)

On Sunday, Todd preached a great sermon on Noah, which you can listen to here.  We also let the kids explore the new van for a bit after nap (hence the "naptime hair" on Penelope), and they were manic with excitement.






On Monday, I got us all into the chiropractor, had a neighbor over for coffee, and actually got a date night in with Todd before the baby comes!  We went to Red Lobster, because although there are much higher quality (and much cheaper!) local places, I just can't get enough seafood when I'm pregnant.  So I downed an entire plate of crab legs in a single sitting, which duly impressed our waiter.  (Note to readers: if a pregnant woman - or really, any woman - eats enough in your presence that you're surprised, act completely nonplussed.  Act like you see this kind of gluttony every day of your life.  Don't get all wide-eyed and aback-taken, unless you want her to eat you, too.)

Nothing much of note happened on Tuesday or Wednesday, which I am completely grateful for.  We did school, we headed up to the Amish, I took about a million hours' worth of naps.  On Thursday, a woman from church watched the kids so I could head to the midwife's office all footloose and fancy-free by myself (which actually means, "including Atticus," who tagged along with me 'because he loves me and wants to keep me company.'  Um, SWOON.  Okay, kid.  You can come with me.)  Nothing new there - I'm growing right where I should be, I'm declining any ultrasounds and invasive 'checks' at this time, and everything looks good so far.

 

In other pregnancy news, I'm in a stage where I can't sleep because my legs are in a lot of pain, so I'm going to try to book an appointment for a massage soon.  I'm getting really worn out.  I also know a few of you have asked if there is anything we can use for this baby, so I set up a couple small registries at Amazon (here) and Target (here) to help with ideas!

We've spent the week swapping out vehicles to get them safety inspected so that we can register them in Missouri (the registration process here requires nothing short of blood and four years off your life, per vehicle), but we finally got the big van back yesterday and got all the seats installed.  The kids had a blast on our maiden voyage.



Today, a friend offered to watch the kids so I can get some baby prep done.  I'm going to run to Aldi to get some ingredients for freezer meals, and Target to get a new nursing bra, because I like to live life on the edge.  It will be the first time I drive the megavan somewhere official.  It will be the first time I back out of the driveway, and figure out how to Parking Lot.  Wish me luck.  So much luck.  All the luck in the entire world, plus any extra there might be lying around in the corners of creation.


Sitting in the passenger seat, my favorite place in ANY vehicle, but especially this one.  I hate driving, and am dreading having to commandeer this Leviathan.

And that was our week!  Things are only going to get speedier from here, so hold onto your hats - you'll be meeting our (still-nameless-as-of-yet) little girl soon!

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This week was hella crazy.  



Last Friday, I took Callista in to the doctor for some testing.  She's been having some GI issues for a long time now, but suddenly they took a turn for the much much worse.  I can't even describe to you what we were facing.  Just... oh my word.  But we had the whole weekend ahead of us before we would be able to get to the lab to have her samples taken.



We spent a LOT of time cuddling on the couch.  She was clearly not feeling like herself.


In the meantime, our church held a women's event, which was fun - and I got to speak on a Q and A panel, which was also fun.  I like doing stuff like that.  Also, though, I was so nervous my tank top was soaked in preggo-belly sweat by the time I was done.

After I got home Saturday around lunch time, we had a small party to celebrate Finneas' birthday.  It was SO fun - I'll have to share more about it next week!




Saturday afternoon, I ran to the library to pick up a few holds, and got to browse the sale for a bit.  I unearthed a few great finds, including Penelope's new favorite book, "Lad."  She's been trying to push through the remaining discomfort from her concussion last week in order to read it, but reading still makes her nauseous and tired.  Luckily, Sunday afternoon was a perfect time to fall asleep reading a book.




On Monday we went to the lab for Callista's blood draw.  I was really worried about how it would go, but she was an absolute champion.  They put the tourniquet on her arm, and she seemed mildly curious, but as soon as they stuck the needle in, she just looked away and got really calm and still.  No flinching, no crying.  She was way more mature about blood draws than her 32-year-old mother is.

Monday night, I went grocery shopping and took Laurelai along as my helper.  We discovered, to our dismay, that they're remodeling the Janky Aldi.  I liked Janky Aldi.  I knew Janky Aldi.  Now it's got tile and fancy fridge cases, and I'm like, "You've changed, Aldi."  Why can't things stay ugly and old and familiar?!

On Tuesday, we went back to the lab to turn in a stool sample.  Hooray!  I got to scoop poop out of a diaper and carry it around in a cup in my purse for a while!  Every mother's dream.

On Wednesday, we made a morning of errands: Amish trip, Walmart grocery pickup, library.  I had a friend over in the afternoon, and in the evening, we welcomed home the newest member of our family, OUR NEW FIFTEEN PASSENGER VAN!



This is big news, guys.  You have no idea how much prayer, and how much truly miraculous provision, went into acquiring this thing.  It is just the coolest story: ask me about it sometime.  We're still deciding on a name for it, and I'm still girding my loins for the day that I actually have to figure out how to back it out of our driveway, but it's OURS, and I could just downright smooch it.



Yesterday, we spent the day cleaning and OH MY WORD I AM NOT CUT OUT FOR DAILY LIFE AT THIS POINT.  My legs are in rebellion, my back is a wreck, and I have a varicose vein on my butt cheek.  MY BUTT CHEEK, you guys.  I think this is my cue to just bow out now.

Luckily, the girls still think pregnancy is cute and fun for all involved (or, at least, it is when it only weighs as much as a balloon inside your shirt).




And I'm able to muster a pleasant look sometimes.



Which is the kind of enthusiasm I'm going to need, as Callista's test results are starting to roll in, and we learned that we're dealing with (among other things) salmonella and e. coli.  Excellent!  Bring on the weekend!



what's up weekly.

This has been a really full week for us, with lots of causes for celebration!

Laurelai 'turned five-and-a-half on PIZZA NIGHT!' as she has told pretty much everyone she's encountered since then.  Todd has always been really great at acknowledging even half-birthdays around here, so it's really fun to have an extra day to celebrate each of them each year.  She was clearly pretty excited to mark the day that she actually turned the corner toward six.




On Saturday, Penelope and I went out together for a "mommy/daughter date."  She's been wanting to make a tie blanket for the new baby, so we headed to Hobby Lobby first to choose fabric.  While we were there, we also shopped for some fun supplies for our newly commissioned "Narnia Club," which I'll tell you about in a sec.

After that, I took her to lunch.  She was really debating about whether to go to Red Lobster or McDonald's, and in the end she chose McDonald's.  I feel like I've failed as a parent.   I at least failed in my efforts of persuasion on Saturday.  At least the excellent company more than made up for the disappointment in the food.



On Saturday night, we commenced our newest endeavor: Narnia Club.  (Working title.)  Basically, we just light candles and sit around and read Narnia together while the kids draw scenes from the chapters.  (Once we're through the series, we'll be setting our sights on other books as well, which is why our club name could bear some tweaking.)  We have a special bag with our notebooks, special pencils, and the current book, to make things 'official' and convenient.



I sit and fold laundry while I listen; hence, the ugly laundry bins in the background.


On Sunday, the heavens opened and poured yet more snow on us.  I feel like the promised land of warm-wintered Central Missouri was just a big hoax.  It made for a dismal showing at church on Sunday, since Missourians have common sense and would rather stay at home when it is unpleasant out, so Todd's sermon on Cain and Abel (which was excellent, by the way, and you should absolutely listen to it) was Anthem's first live-streamed event so that our members could still participate from home!  You can watch the VIDEO! here.  So fun!




On Monday, the dryer broke a little, and then I broke it more with efforts aimed at trying to fix it.  It sat unusable until Wednesday, which was really inconvenient this week as Callista's guts have staged yet another uprising and I am eyeballs-deep in laundry.  (Four sets of sheets and mattress covers, for one thing, plus changing pad covers and clothing and towels...)  Todd was able to fix the dryer for me, though, so I'm nearly caught back up at this point, after running the washer all day yesterday.

Tuesday was uneventful.  Wednesday was relatively normal, with our trip to the Amish in the morning, and a friend coming to visit in the afternoon... and, oh yeah, IT WAS FINNEAS' SEVENTH BIRTHDAY!  I am just so in love with him.  He got to pick all our meals for the day, so he picked cereal for breakfast, macaroni and popcorn for lunch, and pancakes for dinner.  He likes carbs, if that's not clear.  (I did convince him to at least add hot dogs to the macaroni meal, and move the popcorn to later in the afternoon while everyone watched a movie.)  We'll do a small celebration with gifts and cake tomorrow.




Yesterday began with Penelope getting a possible concussion.  Excellent.  Long story short, the kids were wrestling in the basement, which is completely carpeted except for a tiny 3'x3' square of ceramic tile by the door.  Of course someone tackled her too closely to the tile, she hit her head, and came to me rubbing a goose egg.  I'm pretty low-alarm, so I was like, "Bummer.  Go play and it will feel better."  But it didn't start to feel better; it got worse and worse over the next half hour, until she was crying about the pain, not only in her head but also now through her whole body, and the nausea, and the fact that her vision was blurry and she couldn't understand anything people were saying...  It escalated pretty quickly.  So yesterday was basically taken up with injury recovery - rest, water, no screen time or reading, audiobooks to prevent eyestrain, a chiropractor adjustment.  Todd brought her flowers in the evening to help her feel better.



In other news, Callista's current favorite activities are brushing my hair (and insisting I remove my glasses for it, so she can regularly stop to poke me in the eyes with her finger), and playing "naptime," where she gathers nap supplies and lays on the floor, pretending to sleep.





As for the pregnancy update: still huge, still tired.  Starting to subsist mostly on a liquid diet of chocolate almond milk (with collagen in it for protein) because eating anything solid during the day makes me too tired to function.  Flossy flossy.



And that brings us to today.  I'm hoping to run some errands and finish up some schoolwork for the week.  And then this weekend I plan to sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeep… if Callista's bowels cool it for a hot second and don't necessitate constant overnight diaper changes.  One can hope.