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what's up weekly. (three weeks and a snowstorm later....)

Hi, hi! Long time, no write.  Sorry; I've gotten sidetracked lately.  I feel like I've been attempting a lot of changes and overhauls since the New Year, and I'm still trying to find a good rhythm.  

What changes and overhauls?  Well, for one, I've been trying to get to bed earlier.  We have typically gone to bed sometime between 12:30 and 1:00, but since last school year, I've been needing to get up by about 7:15 to start the day.  The lack of sleep was really starting to catch up to me.  So I've been shooting for eight hours of sleep each night since the beginning of January, but my body is seriously so confused.  I either can't fall asleep, or I wake up stupidly early, or I wake up in the middle of the night, or all three.  It's like I don't know how to sleep more than six hours at a time anymore!  So I'm still trying to iron that out.

I've also been attempting to lose some weight, so I started back on a more regular exercise routine and the Trim Healthy Mama bandwagon, and I can proudly say that after four weeks of effort, I have lost exactly 0.0 pounds.

I'm starting to feel like all my New Years resolutions are doomed to failure.

Luckily, I've been (mostly) keeping up with my Bible reading goal.  (The chronological Bible in a year.)  My personal reading goal (3 books a month) is on thin ice - I have two days to finish one more book.  It's looking unlikely.

Ugh.  Way to start the year off with a strong record of mediocrity!  But I'm not going to let it get me down... I think.  Maybe I actually will.  Idk we'll see.

Over Christmas break, I had so much time on my hands that I got optimistic about what I'm able to juggle.  I even started a Substack!  Which is how I even got on this tangent - last week during my blogging hours, I had to decide between finishing Substack article I'd already started, and blogging.  You already know what I chose.  Oops.

(How is Substack different than the blog?  I think I'm going to start articulating topical thoughts over there, more long-form style, and keep on reporting the weekly news-with-photos here.  So, for my thoughts on Christian living, philosophy, and parenting, you can follow me over there.  So far I've answered the question, "Do I ever get overstimulated?", posted about whether I think all Christians should all have large families here and here, and addressed what you need to know about your birth control options as a Christian.  I think my next post will be on parenting teenagers [which really starts when they're toddlers, so you should be paying attention now], so subscribe if you don't want to miss that.)

Anyway.  That brings me to today, where I'll attempt to cover three weeks of news in one post.  Normally that would feel like an intimidating amount, but to be honest, the weeks have just flown by with all of our back-to-school activities.  Lots of the same-old, same-old.  But it's been a good same-old, same-old, with a few items of special note, so let's dive in.

The day after I last posted, my sister and her family came down for Cousin Christmas.  The kids played, we had a fun lunch, and we exchanged gifts.  Such a fun time.  I love their family so much.










The following Monday, we jumped into school after three weeks off.  I have to say, the structure was welcome.  I feel like I'm finally in the groove this school year - the work load is heavy, and the days are full, but I've finally gotten my footing, at least with the school element of things.  The housekeeping and personal creative outlets have taken a lower rung on the ladder, but only one thing at a time can be the top priority, and I feel like the priority of this season is actually getting addressed in its proper order.  Ordo amoris and all that.  So it's good.  I don't feel like it's too much to shoulder anymore.  Maybe that's in part because the babies are getting older as well.


Todd has resumed Saturday Latin lessons when possible.


Anyway.  The structure has been good.  Term Two has been lighter than Term One, and we have hit our stride.

I had purchased a few "activity" gifts to open through Christmas break to keep everyone occupied during the down time, but there was still one gift we hadn't opened yet, so sometime that first week back I let them open that - Play Doh!  Never discount the absorbing power of Play Doh.  It was a hit.





The boys all got haircuts, including Knox.  He always looks so funny when his hair is freshly cut because he's so fat and it just makes him look fatter.  I cannot get enough of this rolypoly boy.  He was so tiny for so long, and I was so worried about him and prayed so fervently that he would gain weight.  All those prayers went straight to his thighs (and calves, and cheeks), and every single time I squish his soft little body, I feel so much joy.  I can't get over how delightfully, wonderfully, adorably, squishably fat he is.  Such a joy.






The babies are getting into everything.  Everything.  They are fast.  They are coordinated.  They each have a built-in sentry and partner-in-crime.  They find markers, and school books, and my phone.  They remove bookmarks.  They rip boxes.  They unburden entire shelves of books of their loads.  They are loud.  They are bottomless.  They are legion.

BUT.  They give the sweetest kisses and hugs.  They share toys with each other.  When one is crying, the other one will pat their head or belly to comfort them.  They pull up their shirts to pat their own bellies when you ask, "Where's your drum? Play your drum!"  Eulalie is finally big enough to wear her gold bangle bracelet she got for her baptism, and she thinks it is just the cat's pajamas.  Knox loves trains, especially the flatbed cars, and he has a GI Joe named Guy Wow.  They both love carrying around baby dolls and pushing them in a shopping cart.  Eulalie loves stealing Knox's "ginky" (a pink blankie that he loves that we have tried in vain to trade for an otherwise-identical white one) so we've had to move their beds farther apart to prevent her reaching through the bars and taking it from him at night.  Eulalie loves playing "making faces," and contorting her mouth into all kinds of funny shapes.  They are just a constant delight in addition to being a constant source of chaos and mischief.

Speaking of chaos and mischief, look at this girl.  It's like she was made to be missing her two front teeth.  (Fresh losses.  One is named Cherry for some reason, and I can't remember the name of the other one that fell out.)




And as for yet more chaos and mischief, we had an extreme cold snap with some snow last week and everyone is just the stir-craziest set of maniacs I've ever met in my life.  It's finally starting to warm up enough to send them outside, thank goodness.  (Now, what the cure is for my own restlessness, I can't yet say.  I think it's going to have to involve painting our entire house.  Inside and out.  It is January and everything is ugly and boring and I just can't stand it.)






Anyway.  Today is Friday, we are more than halfway done with the school year, and I just bought a trench coat and a bunch of plant baskets at Goodwill, so things are looking up.  I'm hoping to finish a book this weekend, and maybe check out a local antique store on Saturday, to finish January strong.  Prayers appreciated as I prepare to charge my way up the San Juan Hill that is February.

what's up weekly. (Can't Stop Christmas, Won't Stop Christmas.)

Well, buckle up, because Christmas was only the beginning of all the celebrations we've had the last few weeks, so even though I shared our Christmas Day photos with you last time, there is still a ton to share.  It has been a very full, very fun season!

The day after Christmas, my mom and stepdad came down to celebrate with us.  My sister and her family were hoping to come, but they unfortunately had a bad virus go through their house, so we'll be partying with them tomorrow instead.  (Keep the party going!)  But it gave us some really nice time to spend one-on-one with my parents.  On Friday, the kids played board games with my mom, and the December-birthday kids got to open their birthday presents.  Atticus got car seat covers for his car, and he immediately raced out the door to install them, so there are no photos.  Oey got a princess dress, and these shenanigans ensued:



Callista also celebrated her half-birthday on the 26th.




The next day, we got to celebrate Second Christmas, and it was so fun.






Rocco has been dying for a jean jacket!


Penelope thought she was going to be getting clothes, but the box tricked her!


Eulalie got a Noah's Ark.


Everyone is dying to know what's in Oey's big present...


A wooden high chair for her babies!




Lolo got a patio set for her dollhouse, with the tiniest little glasses of lemonade that even have ice in them!




My parents went home in the afternoon.  On Sunday, there was no fellowship meal at church, so we came home and ate chicken nuggets for lunch and spent the afternoon working on a Christmas puzzle.




Knox started teething early in the week, so we spent a few days snuggling with him while he nursed a fever and was just generally inconsolable unless he was cuddling a G. I. Joe and watching Thomas the Tank Engine.





On Wednesday of that week, we celebrated New Year's Eve with a cheeseboard.  We have a tradition where anyone in the family who wants to can share a poem or a drawing about our family.  Poems usually include memories from the year, or sum up who each person is or what they like.  Drawings are a fun snapshot of what everyone looks like, and also of growing artistic talent.  It was so fun to see what everyone came up with!


Juni drew a picture


Callista wrote a poem


Rocco drew a picture



Lolo drew a picture (she originally had the top half hidden and then dramatically unfolded it to reveal Atticus!)


Penelope wrote a poem (as did Todd, but there is no photo.)  To read their poems, you can find them on Todd's blog here


Thursday, Todd was off work for New Year's Day, so you know what that means: I cleaned our bedroom.  He works in there, so I don't always have access to it for undertaking big projects, and it was a big project after all of the wrapping and gifting stuff had been in there for the past month.

On Saturday, we had friends from church come for brunch.  They have five kids, so it was a full house (although, Atticus was at work, so he missed out.)

Somewhere along the line, Juni lost her second-annual Christmas Tooth.  She named it George.  She doesn't know why; she just likes that name.




I have been trying to get to bed earlier since the New Year.  I'd been getting between six and seven hours most nights, and it just wasn't enough, so I've been shooting for eight.  The first few days I woke up feeling about the same, maybe even a little more tired, as my body caught up.  I didn't feel radically different.  UNTIL.  Tuesday morning, I was reading my Bible (another attempt at leveling up in the new year) and drinking my coffee and I was suddenly like, "I AM SO AWAKE. What should I do today?! Maybe we should have another baby!  Maybe I should PAINT SOMETHING!  Maybe I should write a book!"  So I walked on the treadmill and picked up our dry cleaning, since those were the most accessible productive projects at the time.  I would have gotten some paint at Home Depot, but my paint chips went missing during the Christmas chaos, so I need to find those first.  In the meantime, I worked on patching some holes in the walls in preparation for some paint and rehanging the curtain rod that someone pulled out of the wall months ago.



It turns out that sleep makes a difference in a person's energy levels and overall outlook.  Who knew?

Tuesday was Epiphany, so we had another cheeseboard, and our friends Josiah and Meghan joined us for the evening with their three kiddos.  I made mini King Cakes for dessert, and their daughter Olive found the "bean" and was Queenie Beanie for the evening (this year, it was a raisin, which is much more complementary to spice cake than black beans, but "Queenie Raisin" just doesn't have the same ring to it.)




Forgive the terrible lighting.  When we have guests on a cheeseboard night, I get to bust out our Super Mega Cheeseboard that my brother-in-law made us from an actual tree.  Amazing.



Check out the full Kids' Table!



Wednesday we finally started taking down all the Christmas decorations.  It was 60 degrees outside and raining, and it was gray and dismal.  Penelope was like, "I think this is the saddest day I've ever had to live through."  Rough stuff.  It's definitely less cozy and Christmassy around here, but I will say that I'm happy to have my normal house back.  It feels good to walk through the living room and recognize it.  


The boys pulled down all the lights in the rain


and while wearing shorts.  Weird start to January.



Knox wanted to help the big boys with the tree.


While the boys were helping me deconstruct All the Things, Penelope kept the babies occupied with some water play.




Today I'll be grocery shopping, and I'll have the kids clean up their rooms.  Tomorrow we'll see my sister's family, and then Monday we'll start back to school - and that will close the book on Christmas 2025.  It was a really good Christmas season!  Luckily, I have a crack team of masseuses and doctors at my beck and call to help me recover.


More spa treatments like this, please and thank you.