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what's to the up to the WEEEKLYYY.

Nothing out of the ordinary to report this week, really, other than the fact that this little booger slept NINE HOURS on Wednesday night (10:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m.), and laughed for the first time ever when I tickled him.  No big deal, except that I'm in love with him.  Hardcore.



Also?  Todd bought me a new pair of uber-warm sweatpants that I vow I will not change out of until spring.  So, since this is the Cedar Valley, look forward to seeing me in these sweatpants for the next seven months.

We actually took all the kids out to eat and a stranger offered to feed Rocco some ice cream.  Uh, no thanks, lady.

And that's all, folks!  Except, one more, for good measure:



more talk of more books.

Earlier this week, I posted the list of books I read in 2015.  This year, I'm trying something new: a list of books I intend to read.  

So far in my life, I've just kind of read whatever I've felt like reading at the time, which has worked out well.  But I've noticed that life has gotten much, much busier over the last year as we've gotten serious about homeschooling and as we have increased in number yet again.  So, I get very little time to read, and I want to make it count.  Not that I won't leave space for knee-jerk reading.  (You know how spring rolls around and you all of a sudden want to read the entire Little House series again, or dust off East of Eden because you're in love with it and it's been much too long since you said 'hello?')  But a lot of the reading I should be doing is not spur-of-the-moment-decision, feel-good reading.  So with that being said, here is my list of reading goals for 2016:

Education:

Educating the Wholehearted Child by Clay Clarkson

Towards a Philosophy of Education by Charlotte Mason

When You Rise Up: A Covenantal Approach to Homeschooling by R.C. Sproul, Jr.

The Abolition of Man by C.S. Lewis


Family/Parenting:

The Mission of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson

The Mission-Minded Child by Ann Dunagan

The Hidden Art of Homemaking by Edith Schaeffer

Give them Grace: Dazzling Your Kids with the Love of Jesus by Jessica Thompson and Elyse Fitzpatrick

Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp


Spiritual Growth:

Forgotten God by Francis Chan


Biography/Autobiography:

Martin Luther by Martin Marty

L'Abri by Edith Schaeffer


Fiction:

Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix by J.K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows by J.K. Rowling


As you can see, there's some room to add some titles without expecting too much of this season of life.  There are fifteen titles on this list; not too heavy if this is all I read this year - I can read 1-2 books per month and get a lot of variety.  But if I have more time to read than anticipated, I can easily pick up a book club pick or whatever without having to shove something else out of the way.  

You can also see that, unfortunately, it will have taken me two years to complete a second read-through of the Harry Potter series.  It just is what it is.  (And 'what it is' is 'a huge bummer,' but one has to learn to bear one's lot in life bravely and without complaint.)

Lastly, the other, not-Harry-Potter-related bummer is that there are no Great Books on here.  I'm hoping I get a little extra time to read at least one classic work of fiction.  Maybe I should just go ahead and find one or two and add them to the list, because I really should... we'll see.

Anyway.  That is that.  We'll see if I stay the course - I don't often do super well with big picture goals, as opposed to flying by the seat of my pants.  Oh, yes, in the detailed minutiae of day-to-day life and living, I'm regimented and altogether no fun.  But I definitely have a devil-may-care approach to setting and meeting long-term goals.  So maybe in the grand scheme of things, that spontaneity makes me more fun?  Well, I'm about to try to fix that... er, you know what I mean.

use a fan or contouring brush to spread it out until it's perfect.

rocco's modern life: two months.

Rocco turned two months old last Wednesday.  He is eating well (every 2-3 hours through the day, once per night.)  He goes to bed around midnight, eats around 6:00, wakes up for the day between 8:00 and 8:30.  He usually takes a really long, solid nap in the afternoon and a few catnaps throughout the rest of the day.  He is getting really close to just being able to be laid down in his bed at naptime without much help soothing himself to sleep - he's been super easy to sleep train so far.  If he wakes up and is having a hard time falling back to sleep, he loves having his hand held and will fall asleep pretty readily if I'm holding his hand.

He's cooing and 'talking' back and forth with me.  He gives huge smiles!  He's really strong and can hold his head up like a champ.  While it technically happened after his two-month date, he can now roll over at will.  He is super easy going, and has the sweetest temperament.

He still takes about 20 minutes to eat at each feeding, and is (thankfully, so far) a pretty focused nurser.  Breastfeeding is still going well - no issues to report yet.

At his two-month well check, he weighed 11 lb., 11 oz. (20th percentile) and was 24.5 inches long.  He's long and lean.  His hair seems to have stopped falling out and started growing back in - the damage wasn't too bad!  Hopefully that's a good omen for how much of my hair will fall out, and how long it will take to fill back in.

And just since I didn't post a one-month update for him, we'll start there with our photos.



first smiles.


he is absolutely adored by his big sibs.



maybe a little too adored for his liking.



he's a tummy sleeper.  please don't freak out.


look how much he's grown!



mission accomplished: i read some books last year.

Last year was a bit of a flop in terms of number of books I read.  Often, I only finished one book in a month.  I didn't finish any in May.  But I reassure myself that I'm not a lazy bimbo by remembering that, for a full four months in 2015, I was early-pregnant and sicker than a dog, and for two months, I had a newborn.  It was a full year.

However, even though I didn't read tons of books last year, I did read some pretty good ones.  And some extraordinarily great ones, as indicated in the list below by bolded font.

So, without further ado, my reading accomplishments of 2015:

1.  The Husband’s Secret by Liane Moriarty (1/2)

2.  A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini (1/9)

3.  Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis: Lifestyle Interventions for Finding and Treating the Root Cause by Izabella Wentz (1/25)

4.  The Secret History by Donna Tartt (1/30)

5.  All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr (2/5)

6.  Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life by Barbara Kingsolver (2/15)

7. The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger (2/22)

8.  Light in August by William Faulkner (3/06)

9.  Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling (4/09)

10.  A Family Collection by Laura Ingalls Wilder, ed. Richard Marshall (4/21)

11.  A Sane Woman’s Guide to Raising a Large Family by Mary Ostyn (6/16)

12. The Big Tiny: A Built-It-Myself-Memoir by Dee Williams (6/23)

13.  Large Family Logistics: The Art and Science of Managing a Large Family by Kim Brenneman (7/08)

14.  The Prize Winner of Defiance, Ohio: How My Mother Raised 10 Kids on 25 Words or Less by Terry Ryan (7/19)

15.  The American Plate: A Culinary History in 100 Bites by Libby O’Connell (8/13)

16.  Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by J.K. Rowling (9/2)

17. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by J.K. Rowling (9/15)

18. In Defense of Food: An Eater’s Manifesto by Michael Pollan (9/18)

19.  Food Rules: An Eater’s Manual by Michael Pollan (9/21)

20.  The Jane Austen Book Club by Karen Joy Fowler (10/27)

21.  Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling (11/25)

22.  Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (12/28)


Okay, as for the bolded books, they are ones I read for the first time this year, loved, and fully intend to read again one day:

All the Light We Cannot See: I don't really feel the need to justify this one, as everyone has read it and everyone has loved it.  I am no exception.  I'm looking forward to reading this again sometime.  Interestingly, it is the only fiction I truly loved this year.  (Other than that perennial favorite, my dear Harry Potter.)

Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: This is just fascinating.  Half first-hand account, half journalistic report on the current culture, quality, and political climate of what we eat and where it comes from - with plenty of farming/gardening thrown in.  If you know me at all, you know at once why I loved this book.

A Family Collection: By Laura Ingalls Wilder, before she was Laura Ingalls Wilder.  How-to articles and opinion pieces written for local farm magazines, long before she wrote and published the Little House books.  She was, apparently, an orchardist and prize-winning chicken breeder, among many, many other things.

The Big Tiny: This, surprisingly, was probably my favorite read of the year.  It's the story of a woman who built and lived in a truly tiny house (84 square feet! On wheels! That could be pulled behind a pickup!) in her friend's backyard, with her dog.  Her writing is incredible, the story is inspiring, and even the insights on how she determines what to keep and how to store it were helpful.  I HIGHLY recommend you read this book.  And that was in all-caps, and in bolded and italicized font.  I think you can see I mean business.

The Prize-Winner of Defiance, Ohio: I found out about this story because the movie was on Netflix (which I admittedly watched first, and loved, too).  A funny, inspiring, pretty unbelievable memoir written by the daughter of a woman who nearly single-handedly supported a family of twelve by winning marketing contests in the fifties and sixties.  This is another highly recommended book.


Have you read any of the books on this list?  What did you think of them?  I clearly LOVE talking books, so please do leave your thoughts!

(For previous years' lists and favorite books, check out these posts from
2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, and 2014.)

w.u.w.

Last Saturday, Penelope went grocery shopping with me, and took along her own 'jobs' money to buy a bag of chocolate chips.  She felt super grown up and spent about a million years standing in the baking aisle, debating between 'brown' chocolate chips or 'white' chocolate chips.  She went with the white, ate five of them at home, and decided she didn't like them.  Not sure if it ended up being a 'win' or not, but at least it was a lesson in how difficult money is to earn, how easy it is to spend, and how quickly we become disenchanted with the things we feel we just have to have.

On Sunday, Atticus said goodbye to his children's church teachers, and joined us for 'Big Church.'  (Our children's ministry goes through age 6.)  It was indescribably wonderful to have him by our side and seeing him raise his hands in worship.  This is a very, very good transition.

Rocco turned two months old this week, which means he's getting closer and closer to that 12-week mark where his days will become more regulated.  Right now he's no longer in the sleepy newborn stage, but not yet in the sleep-trained stage, so the days are somewhat rough.  He also had his two-month appointment yesterday, at which he weighed in at 11 lbs, 11 oz.  He's growing, which is great news, as I've been really mindful of what I eat and drink and have been pretty militant in my dedication to pumping at least once per day.  He's smiling, cooing, and holding his head up like a veritable champion.  I'll write a more detailed post on him next week.



Penelope is still developing her weird rash.  We've determined that it's pityriasis rosea, which is harmless and not contagious, even though it's pretty gnarly-looking.  It started on her neck with a large 'herald' patch, and has spread all over her torso and neck and is now moving to her face.


What I've Been Reading:
Reading is slow-going and opportunities for it are spotty these days, but I did finish reading Pride and Prejudice for the first time.  Going into it, I knew embarrassingly little about it.  I knew that everyone is obsessed with Mr. Darcy for some reason, and I knew that Charlotte Bronte hated the novel.  So I went in pretty blind and admittedly, a tiny bit biased.  But it was really good!  (As though I'm shocked that everyone likes it for good reason.)  I wasn't expecting there to be as much wit in it as there is, and some of the plot twists and subtle sarcasm kind of reminded me of some of the Shakespeare we've read together this year during school time.  I don't know if I'll ever read it again, but I really enjoyed it.

Since finishing that, I've started trudging through a very poorly written biography of Martin Luther.  I could just give it up for dead, but as it's the only Luther biography our pathetic library offers, and as I've started setting goals for the number of biographies and autobiographies I read each year, and as I'm already about halfway through, I'm not going to give up now. Anyway, very interesting life, incredibly terrible writing.  Truly awful.

What I've Been Watching:

True to form, I'd never seen Pride and Prejudice since I'd not read the book first, so once I finished the book, Todd and I sat down and watched the Keira Knightley movie.  I think the inevitable outcome of watching movies based on books is always a level of disappointment, but for a movie based on a book, it was pretty good.  I thought the casting of Mr. Collins was absolutely perfect.

So then I began (and have not yet finished) watching through the BBC's P&P miniseries from the 90's and am loving it.  (Considering the script is taken almost verbatim from the book for the most part, it makes sense.)

We also finished the HBO miniseries based on the McCollough biography of John Adams, which I read last year, and then we began the History Channel miniseries, "America: The Story of Us."  Both are really great and are highly recommended.

Also, we started Parks and Rec back at the beginning.  There are a few shows Todd and I love watching through occasionally, and this is one of them.  (Along with 30 Rock, The Office, and The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.)

And, I think that is that for our week!

organizing all our christmas stuff: a first world problem, but still.

Yesterday was January 6, or Epiphany for those of you with liturgical backgrounds.  I usually take down the Christmas decorations on January 7 as a result, just to milk the Christmas season as long as I can (and to put off the inevitable, crushing hassle of putting it all away).  But this year, with a new-ish baby in the house, I just needed the quick return of a sense of order and calm and 'normal,' so I started a bit earlier than usual.  (A bit.)  For those of you still staring down your Christmas stuff, I thought I'd walk you through how we keep our Christmas stuff organized, in case it helps.

First, a few rules of organization:
1. Have less stuff.
2. Group "like" with "like."
3. Label like your life depends on it.

Okay, Rule 1: Have less stuff.

I know it's hard, but really, if you aren't naturally a purger, you're going to have to learn this skill before things will get better organized.  There's no way around it. In terms of Christmas decor, one thing I do is evaluate each year the things that did not get put out during the season and ask myself why I didn't use it.

Many items that didn't get put out this year were items I bought when we lived in our apartment in Ames, so some were pushing nine years old and all were from a time when my style was much different than it is now.  I got rid of them this year instead of pretending I'd use them again.  If I ever need candles in that color (etc) down the road, I can always buy new ones.  Not many things are truly irreplaceable: if you don't love an item, and if you can easily buy something similar later if you need to, it might be worth freeing up the physical and mental space now.  

Other things I didn't put out were a few items I got as hand-me-downs from others, and I'd either felt guilty getting rid of them, or thought that I might use them someday.  Which brings me to a sub-point:  IF you are only keeping something out of guilt or 'what ifs,' not because you're actually excited to use it now or in the future, get rid of it.  Just rip off the band-aid and give it to someone who will be happier to have it than you currently are.  Sometimes this happens via Goodwill, and that's fine.  Guilt and worry are not good reasons to keep stuff.  Because it really is just stuff.

If you need some further tips on paring down, this is the most helpful article/blog post I've seen with starting guidelines on the topic.

Okay, Rule 2: Group "like" with "like."

One really helpful side effect of grouping like items together is that you can quickly see which things don't really 'go' with everything else, and you can evaluate whether that straggly little thing might be better off gone.

Large bins are hard to keep organized because stuff just kind of gets jumbled around in there, so even inside of a large bin, keep stuff grouped together by either 'type' of item, or by items that are frequently used or gotten out together.  Fill bins only with items that are used around the same time as each other.  For instance:

Box 1: Commonly-used nativity sets.


All of my most frequently displayed nativities are in their own boxes, but stored in a larger box together.

Box 2: Commonly used household decorations


Within this larger bin, I have my most commonly used decor, sorted into boxes and bags of things like dishes, stockings and scented pinecones. 

Box 3: Rarely used household decor and lights
This one contains less commonly used nativities and decor, but since I don't get that stuff out regularly, it's all placed together and left in storage so I'm not sorting around it as I'm decorating.  Someday we'll have a bigger house in which I can display it (it's all stuff I still really like, I just have no room for it here), so I'm keeping it, but I don't need to pull it out every year.

Box 4: Tree decorations
Lights, tree topper, ornament hooks, etc. 
I also have separate, individual boxes for each person's ornaments, which makes it very easy to pull it out and decorate the tree each year, even with so many kids.  Each ornament is also labeled with the owner's name or initial, which makes it easy to put it all back later.

And once the lids are on the bins, we can move on to...
Rule #3: Label everything like your life depends on it.

Don't go through all the trouble of organizing everything, then make it impossible for yourself to find anything when you need it.  As much as you think you'll remember what has been stored where, you won't, nor should you have to.  Just pop a label on it and forget about it until next year.

I use a label maker to label the side of the box with broad categories (in this case, most of my boxes say "Christmas Decorations, with the exception of the ornament bins, which are also labeled with the name of each person).  Then, on the top, I tape a list of the specific items found in the specific bin.  The beauty of doing it this way is that, as I purge old things and gain new things, I just pull off the list and post a new one without much hassle.






This is my huge bin of stuff I don't often use, including some beautiful all-white nativity sets.  I just don't have much horizontal surface space currently to set things out on, but that will not likely always be the case.  I also keep our outdoor lights in here; I just don't have the energy to put those up at this season in life, but they're really nice lights I got incredibly cheaply, and I know I'll get use out of them in a few years.  So they're worth saving.



Those smaller plastic boxes contain each person's ornaments, and the ziplock bag on top contains our tree skirt.


And a few random tips:  

1. While it seems like an unnecessary expense to buy plastic bins for everything, I find that investing in decent organizing tools actually saves you time and effort and money in the long run, so it's worth it to me.  Bugs, mice and water can't damage things stored well in plastic, so I won't be having to replace things due to damage.  Plus, having bins that are uniform in size makes storage and retrieval so much easier and less time-consuming, and time is money, my friends.  So I will be getting a bin to replace that cardboard box next year.

2.  In addition to getting a new bin next year, there are a few things that need to be replaced, considered or fixed before I can use them next year.  I find I have more energy for this stuff at the beginning of the season than at the end, so I just leave myself a list inside of the first box I know I'll pull out next year:



And lastly, those horrible strings of lights that always get tangled... Wrap them in a loop between your thumb and down over your elbow, then use a ribbon (or, as seen here, a podunk piece of scrap paper) to secure around one side, like so:



No more tangled lights, and no money spent on something bulky.  Just pop it in your 'tree decorations' bin and shove it into storage.  Blammo.

Hope that was helpful!

...merry christmas?

I took down the tree yesterday.  I unscrewed it from the tree stand while the three biggest kids did their best to hold it upright to keep it from timber-ing.  They did an excellent job and, as a result, I'm not currently squished into a pancake, so fourteen kudos to them.  I literally owe them my life, so I guess we're even now.

I took the tree halfway out to the backyard - I was going to haul it all the way back there, but then gave up when I got to the fence, so I am just 'letting it rest' in the driveway.  I will be spending the rest of the week taking down all the Christmas decor, fixing the broken bits (oh, yes) and packing it all away.

Broken bits?  Well, the beautiful peacock feathers on Laurelai's stocking ended up getting plucked.  A horn broke off of the carved stone cow in one of our nativity sets when it got dropped down the stairs, making it look like it's a unicorn that attended the birth of Christ.  Laurelai also managed to disassemble a tiny, artisan-made tree ornament with a minuscule nativity scene inside, and I was only able to find every piece but the Infant Jesus, who is regarded in most circles to kind of be the most important part of any nativity scene.  (Without him, you just have some regular people hanging out in a barn for no reason.)  While I am used to having to cobble stuff back together, and while most of these Christmas mishaps can be rectified, I can not conjure a miraculous re-appearance of the Christ Child in the tree ornament, so I'm debating on whether or not I should even bother gluing my fingers together in an attempt to get the other characters back inside.  We shall see.

Anyway, as a tribute to this Christmas season, here's a recap of some of the holly jolly decorating I did:


We don't have a mantel, so I like treating our piano like one.  I found this awesome rose gold banner at Target this year.


Our tree was seriously massive and wonderful.



While neither of these little ornaments was the one that got desecrated, they're in the same vein.  Each year I get each family member a fair trade ornament for their stocking.  Our tree is starting to look positively global.  Which you know I love.

And speaking of global and fair trade...


I've started a collection of fair trade nativity sets, all of which have been gifted to me by Todd's mom.  This was the first set she got me; it was made in Ethiopia.  (This and the following photos are  from Todd's instagram.)


This is the second one, from Kenya, and this is the set that now sports a confident unicorn.


And this tiny set from Peru is the kids' favorite.  That baby Jesus probably needs to be glued to the manger before I put this set away; as it is, he's about the size of a black bean and completely free to roam about the cabin stable.  I'm surprised no one has swallowed him yet.  Give it time.


These are the stumps from most of our Christmas trees over the years.  (Our first Christmas tree, The Christie Brinkley, has no representation, unfortunately.)  One of these years I'm going to frame them in shadow boxes or something.  One of these years.


While I'm sad to see the Christmas stuff get packed away for another year, I'm excited for the simpler, everyday decor to come back out.  I got a few pretty things for Christmas that I will be finding homes for, and rearranging a bit, so I'll keep you posted on that.

So with that, the Christmas season is over at Chez V.V.  Bring on the new year!

in which you discover we're really just hippies.

I had an ear infection.  It got so bad, there were a couple of nights I couldn't fall asleep because of the pain, so we heated up rice packs and I would lay with my ear on one of those until it stopped hurting long enough for me to finally get to sleep.  It was horrible.

While we haven't dealt with many ear infections in our house (I think Atticus is the only one who has ever gotten them, but maybe Penelope has had one), I usually put warm garlic oil in their ears and stopper it with a cotton ball.  Works like a charm - we've never had to use antibiotics - but the kids smell just awful afterwards.  I'm talking rank.  Imagine garlic breath wafting out of your ears.  I didn't want to do that to myself, so I kept hoping it would go away on its own.  But on the third day of getting no sleep and being in tons of pain, I finally sent Todd to the store to buy a couple of ear candles.

'Ear candles?' you say.  'They sound weird,' you say.  Well, yeah.

They're basically long, hollow, tapered tubes made of beeswax and muslin.  You gently put the tapered end near the hole in your ear, and light the other end ON FIRE.  Like so:




Why the towels?  Well, because I have a (pretty reasonable, I think) fear of some ash falling off the end into my hair and setting my head ablaze.  While I have done this three times in my life, and never has a single bit of ash ever fallen off (you cut the end into a bowl of water as you go), I still think I can't really be faulted for wanting to be safe.

So anyway.  How does it work?  I'm no scientist, so I don't know exactly, but I did take physics in high school, so I think that at least qualifies me to postulate.  

Hypothesis One: The warm smoke enters the ear canal, loosening up the gunk and allowing it to drain, and soothing the inflamed ear drum.  (See? I can even use anatomical words because I also took biology and half of an anatomy class in high school.)

Hypothesis Two:  The flame at the top creates a suction, and as it pulls oxygen from the bottom of the candle upward, some of the nasties that got loosened up by the smoke in Hypothesis One get pulled into the candle, hopefully pulling some of the bacteria and other whatever whatever with them. 

I know Hypothesis Two is at least partially true, because I cut these bad boys open when it was all said and done, and the candle from my right ear (the one with the infection) was full of... I'm not even going to describe it.  You don't want to know.  Just trust me on this.

And by the evening the pain had lessened enough that I slept easily, and by the end of the next day, my ear was pretty much back to normal.  

So, there you go.  Weird stuff works, yall.  Weird stuff works.

'what's up' weekly.

So, it's been a while since I've done a weekly run-down.  With Rocco around, there is simultaneously tons going on, and also nothing to write about.

In Rocco news, he turned eight whole weeks on Wednesday.  I've been spending the last two weeks working on teaching him to fall asleep on his own by laying him down drowsy, but awake.  It's a slow process, but he's catching on, and once he falls asleep, he's a great napper.  He's still going to bed around midnight or so, and I'm getting really tired.  Plus, it has snowed a bunch here and the temperature has dropped, so I'm starting to get really cranky.

In Laurelai news, we're having to launch an anti-bullying campaign in our house.  Not to protect her, as you might think, but to protect her victims.  Though she is still as helpful as ever with All Things Rocco.

In Finneas news, he's starting to nap without a diaper on... it has been successful most days, though if you're looking for a fail-proof recipe for getting urine out of a pack and play mattress, let it soak in a tub full of hot water, dawn dish soap, and lemon and tea tree EO's.  Then scrub with a carpet brush and air dry.  For your health.

In Penelope news, she has a weird rash, but she also has a new set of colorful pens, so it all balances out in the end.  She has gotten super encouraging with her words over the last couple of weeks, and I can't even count how many times this week she turned to me and said, 'Do you even know how awesome you are?'

In Atticus news, he stayed home from church on Sunday because he wasn't feeling well, and we had a really fun time together, just me and him and Rocco.  He is really starting to develop a heart for the Bible, and has frequently asked to have it read out loud, or to stay up late in his bed reading a storybook Bible.  Well, sure, son.

In Todd news, he spent three hours shoveling out our driveway this week because he likes to party.  He's still growing out his beard from No-Shave November, although he's shaving the neckbeard, so I don't hate it.

In my own personal news, I went grocery shopping on Saturday and took Penelope with me, and had a ball.  We're coming to realize that anything we do that could be done with a kid in tow, should be done with a kid in tow.  It's hard sometimes, because it cuts into some necessary alone time for this strong introvert.  But there isn't a ton of time to get adequate one-on-one time with them if we don't, and they're really such different people when they're not just part of the pack.  It's totally worth it.  I think she's going to become a regular shopping pal.

I also found a new rug for our bedroom.  I'd been on the hunt for a long time, and finally found one - at west elm, on clearance, plus fifteen percent off.  Oh man.  I'm so excited to get it in there.

We all got a chance to see lots of friends this week, too.  My friend Michelle came over yesterday morning, which was great since I haven't seen her since she moved to Minnesota over the summer, and we got to eat dinner at our friends Stan and Sarah's house last night.  Today Todd will take the big two to his friend Jordan's wedding, and tomorrow we'll hopefully be heading out on a double date with Paul and Jenni.  We are almost never this social - it's exhilarating and exhausting all at once.



And that was how we ended 2015.  Not too shabby.