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what's up weekly. (birthdays and all the things.)

I'm sorry to leave you hanging again!  I know that during this time of pregnancy, radio silence can be interpreted as news, so let me just first say that there is no news.  No major news, anyway.  I'm 37 weeks and now officially cleared for home birth.  I'm not sure what Kansas laws are about it (nor do I care), but my midwife feels most comfortable knowing that babies born earlier than this are born at the hospital, to make sure they have what they need in case their lungs aren't fully developed yet.  BUT in addition to that date hurdle, I'm still waiting a few more days for full assurance that I'll be able to birth with my midwife - her son is getting married this weekend, so she is not available until Monday.  I'm sure it will be fine, but I have that day in my head as a major milestone.  She'll come here for an appointment on Monday and drop off the birth pool, and then my mind will rest knowing we have everything we need to "go."




The baby has been in the correct position since very early in the pregnancy - "locked and loaded."  But last Sunday, I was taking a nap in a weird position to try to avoid heartburn, and the baby totally moved.  I'm having a hard time knowing exactly how it's lying now, but it is definitely different, and it feels "sideways."  Not great.  I am looking forward to having my midwife check it out and give me her thoughts or advice.  But, I've had slightly less back pain and heartburn since the baby moved, and the small amount of relief has genuinely been welcome.  Especially because we've been busy busy busy  and I can use any increased amount of functionality I can get!

So what have we been busy with?  Literally everything.  Get ready for a long post.  I'll try to do bullet points to keep things as concise as possible.

1. Todd finished the front yardwork for me.



After the boys planted the boxwoods for me, Todd finished everything up by laying mulch.  Last year, this whole side of the flower bed remained rocks and bare dirt.  I had only had the energy and the funds to do it in halves, and half a finished flower bed was more than none!  But doesn't it look so pretty now?  I just love it.  I'm so excited for these plants to fill in through the season and over the next couple of years.  I think I'd like to try to paint the shutters and front door later this summer if I get around to it, but I am so happy with how it's looking!


2. We had a birthday party for Juni and Penelope.






Both the girls have birthdays in April, so we often throw two separate parties, but this year Penelope wanted a "friends" party closer to her actual birthday, so this party was mainly for Juni.  Family came down, and we celebrated with barbecue and strawberry shortcake on Paw Patrol plates.  (Of course, I failed to get any photos of the family or the meals.  Doh.)

Both girls got to do a gift opening though, and both were thrilled.  Penelope got a set of twin quilts... which were the first clue she had that we will be giving the big girls their own room soon as we rethink sleeping arrangements for after the baby comes.




3. Major work commenced on the girls' new room.








Remember when we had that pipe burst in January?  The carpet was wet, and Todd had to cut multiple holes into the drywall just to find out where the leak was coming from, because the walls weren't wet - the water was pooling on the floor behind the wall and then seeping into the carpet.  It took a couple of weeks to even identify what was going on.  Once we found the leak, Todd was able to jerry-rig a solution that kept the water in the pipe and out of the house until our plumber friend could come help us fancy-fix the issue.  Our friend has been super busy lately though, and wasn't able to come until last week.  So they finally fixed the pipe up right, then Todd was free to close up the walls.

He had never done that before, so he asked our contractor neighbor to show him the ropes.  Jason showed him what to do and lent him the tools he needed, and Todd spent a week of evenings patching and sanding drywall.  It turned out so well!  Everything is smooth and looks like, well, like walls should look.  Job well done!



Then Penelope picked out some paint, and we worked together to get the room painted.  I edged and she learned how to roll, and we got some time to hang out just the two of us.  It was a gift in itself!  She's really getting excited to move into her new room.

Now all that's left is vacuuming up all the drywall dust and retacking the carpet.  I'll show you photos soon!  Then we'll start getting furniture moved in.


4. We celebrated St. George's Day.




The girls made cookies, and we read some George-themed poetry at dinner.


5. I did my own little bit of yard work.




Our backyard was once sod, so its growth pattern is a little strange to me.  It starts out patchy at the beginning of the season but then it fills in.  But between the fact that the previous owners had a dog, and the fact that our yard is verrrry small and so the whole patch of grass is "high traffic" now that the kids are running on it constantly, the bare spots weren't filling in as well as they should.  So I went ahead and cordoned off part of it and am attempting to reseed it.  I'll hopefully aerate in the fall as well.  We'll see if I can keep grass growing back there.  Doubtful, but I'd like to try to not end up with the Sandlot for a yard.  In the meantime, the kids have been playing in the field.  We have been so blessed by such generous neighbors.

On this particular day, the boys pitched a tent out there.  Not exactly sure what the game was, but there was a lot of walkie talkie action happening.



6. Penelope turned fourteen!



This girl grows more into a peer everyday.  She has interesting thoughts, funny jokes, and well-written stories at-the-ready to tell any moment.  She is incredibly musical, and has been loving Disney soundtracks lately.  If you ever wonder where she is, she can typically be found at the piano or in her room singing along to her guitar or CD player.  She is thoughtful and helpful and a joy to be around.  She is organized and a hard worker at her school work, working her way ahead whenever she can.  She is incredible at math and hopes to have all of her math coursework done by the end of 10th grade so she can try some applied math opportunities, like computer coding and bookkeeping/accounting.  She also likes trying her hand at many creative domestic things like baking, knitting, and decorating.

She's my right hand gal.  I don't know how I'd get through a day without her, and I'm so glad I don't have to.  She's such a good friend.


7.  She hosted her first "friends" birthday party.





She did most of it herself - she planned the menu, set the guest list, and sent out the invitations.  I just helped here and there where she needed me.  She made iced tea, cookies, finger sandwiches, and cake balls.  (The cake balls were a joint effort - they began as a cake, but that crumbled; so then we tried to turn them into tea cakes, but again, too crumbly; so then we made them into cake balls, which were quickly dubbed "squishies" by the teens at the party.)  She invited three friends from church, as well as her siblings, and they chatted and she opened gifts, and then they went and played group games in the yard until the party was over.  It was so much fun.


8. Our big, big news: WE FINISHED THE SCHOOL YEAR!!
















Oh, this has been a huge relief.  I am so glad we got finished with plenty of time before the baby's arrival.  It deserved a celebration!  So we went to Donut Palace, which did not disappoint.  Then we took Last Day of School photos! 



The big kids wanted to take photos with the stacks of books they've read to completion this year.  Quite impressive, if you ask me!  There are authors in there like Churchill, Dickens, Hawking, all of which they read independently.  This was not an easy year for them, but they handled it with aplomb.  So proud of their work!


9.  We've kept ourselves busy with many other things as well! 

I've finished switching all the kids' clothes over to their summer wardrobes, which is always a huge undertaking that involves tons of extra laundry, but I did it!  I even took Penelope shopping, since she has outgrown her last size but I had no idea what her current size is.  But she got everything she needed, and the kids' bins are all clean and switched out, so I feel very accomplished.

Oey picked out her own outfit, so she feels very accomplished.




Laurelai has spent a lot of time dressed as Laura Ingalls, or a pirate, or a survivor of a zombie apocalypse.  Dress up has been the name of the game. 



The boys created their own WWE show, with choreographed moves and everything.  It was performed on the couch, so the crowd was seated in folding chairs to the side.  Notice I took a seat in the back so I wouldn't get faced by any thrown folding chairs or jumping wrestlers.




And lastly, Oey has discovered the joys of coloring.  She is turning into such a big kid.




So... THAT is what we've been up to.  I'm exhausted.  I have a few more projects to tackle before the baby comes, and then I'm just going to collapse and mentally prepare for what's coming.  Or I'll just keep moving to keep my mind off what's coming, and I'll go into it blindly.  We'll see what it ends up boiling down to.

Hi again, friends!  I was a no-show last week because we were actually driving home from Columbia Thursday evening and I didn't have my usual blogging time slot available to me.  Last week was a Spring Break week for us, and it was the wildest, so I guess I'll start there.

With the baby coming soon, and the weather getting nicer, I knew I wanted to make the most of the break, so I scheduled all kinds of stuff that I just don't typically have time to tackle when school is in session.  We kicked off Monday with some errands, since it's always kind of a treat for us all to get out of the house and go somewhere.  We ran to Home Depot to buy some boxwoods for my front flower beds.  Then we ran to Price Chopper to take advantage of a sale on ground beef - I bought forty pounds to can.  So obviously that was the rest of my day: prepping the meat for canning.  I also got a few freezer meals prepped for after the baby comes.


Penelope also helped me by peeling and chopping twenty pounds of potatoes for me to can.  Big kids are amazing.


After soaking in water for a bit to purge some of the starch, I laid them out to dry before loading them into jars.


After they're in jars, I just add a little butter or ghee and some salt.  No liquid.






Tuesday, the bigger kids had eye doctor appointments in the morning.  Later in the day, I kept working on canning the meat and potatoes.  (Each batch takes about three hours in the canner total, and only seven jars fit in there at once, so it takes a while to do a big batch like this, and it usually takes me the course of a few days.)

Wednesday, we headed to the yard waste place to get free mulch.  Because our only vehicle is the van, we take big trashcans with us to fill and load in the back cargo space, and it took us three trips to get enough to mulch the chicken yard.  Once we got that unloaded and spread, and ate our lunch, I had the boys plant my boxwoods.  (I won't stop saying it: big kids are such a blessing.)



It doesn't look like much while we wait for the hostas to come up, the grass to fill in, and the trash bags full of leaves to get used up in the chicken run.  But it's better than it was - and softer on the kids' feet when they come out barefoot in the warm weather.




All the boxwoods on this side of the flower beds are new this year.  Once everything is in, I'll buy some brown mulch to polish it up, but it's already looking so amazing with a full hedge of boxwoods in.  The plants against the house are Incrediball white hydrangeas.  They've already grown so much from last year!  Landscaping is so different from interior decorating, because the things you "decorate" with grow and change, and potentially die, and require specific conditions for good placement other than just "I like how that looks right there," and look different at different times of the year.  I still have so much to learn.


Thursday, Todd had a mandatory work meeting back in Columbia, so we all hit the road to go with him.  While he was in his meeting, the kids and I went to Natural Grocers and Aldi.  (Natural Grocers carries the pickles the kids love, so we stocked up on those, and Aldi carries the wine we love but Kansas grocery stores aren't allowed to sell wine, so we stock up when we're on the Missouri side.)  Then we grabbed some crackers, meat, cheese, and juice for lunch and headed over to Shelter Gardens to eat while we waited for Todd to finish his meeting.

Then we headed up north so I could get a few things from the Amish.  Todd and the kids stayed at the house of some friends, while my friend Jen and I drove the rest of the way up to the Amish together.  I don't get up there as often as I wish I could, so I made sure to stock up for a while.  When we came back to the house, Jen had tacos ready for everyone, and she gave me and the big girls haircuts.  We left after dinner and got home about 10:30.  It was a fun, full, long day.


This is a screenshot from a video on my phone, so that's why it looks stupid and doesn't even include everything.  I got two Boston ferns (for $8 each!), 25 lbs of popcorn, 20 lbs of raw sugar, a few pounds of Real Salt, a gallon of maple syrup, 12 pints of raw honey, a pound of homemade noodles, 10 or 15 dozen canning lids, 10 lbs of raw butter, some cleaning supplies and some ding and dent items - mustard and Sterzings chips.  My friend Irene also sent me home with homemade pastries and a gallon of fresh milk.


Friday, we picked up the little girls' glasses (their exams were the previous week).  We made a trip to the car wash to clean out the van, and we also made a run to Dollar Tree so the kids could buy birthday presents for the upcoming birthdays of Juniper and Penelope.  I finished the week's canning projects, and we had a Psalm Sing in the evening.  I had Todd drive me and the little girls home right after the singing, instead of staying late to socialize, and after I had put the girls to bed, I also went right to bed myself.  I almost never go to bed that early, and I prefer to wait up for Todd so we can go to bed together anyway, but boy howdy, I was wiped out from the week.




This was the largest canning week I've ever done - over 50 quarts!  Broth, potatoes, ham, and ground beef.


On Saturday, Todd took the boys to an airsoft war near Kansas City, so the girls and I were on our own at home.  We got a lot of cleaning done, which is a relief - the house was really needing it.  Penelope has kindly offered to take over vacuuming and mopping for me, since my back just doesn't hold up for that anymore, so she's been doing that on Saturdays, and I got the living room and family room cleaned and straightened out.  I'm pretty sure the boys would say they had the better day, but a clean living room and clean floors seem to me to about rival the joy and adrenaline of an airsoft battle.  But maybe I'm wrong.


They do actually look like they were having more fun than I was having dusting.




Rocco and Atticus.  Rocco didn't spend much time engaging in the battle: the rules were that kids under 10 could only participate if they would promise they wouldn't cry if they got hit, and he wisely said he couldn't promise that.  He did attempt this zombie round for a little while, and then graciously bowed out.





We had brinner for Sabbath dinner that night (which is always an overwhelming hit at our house - the kids get so excited!), so Callista helped me make a triple batch of pancakes, so that we would have plenty on hand for Juni's birthday breakfast in a few days. 



Pancakes and wine?  Don't mind if I do.



After such a full week, I was actually feeling really ready for a normal school week this week.  We are in the process of wrapping up the school year, so we hit the books hard, but that was basically all we focused on so it still felt calmer than the week before.  Atticus had a number of mowing jobs, and is working on the farm today, so his week has been full of work, as well as fitting his whole school load into fewer available days.  But three of the four grade levels finished up read alouds yesterday, so things are definitely lightening up for most of them already.




Callista finished all her work this week, and she got this certificate for finishing her whole math book!


This past Monday was Juniper's birthday!  For meals she requested pancakes for breakfast, hot dogs and zucchini for lunch, and macaroni and cheese with ground beef for dinner.  Super simple food to prepare, which I was grateful for! 

She is five.  She is rascally.  She has a deep laugh and finds so many things funny!  The kids have been really into clips of WWE that Todd finds on YouTube, and she has taken a special liking to Sting.  She loves to cuddle, loves to play with Oey, and loves her daddy.  She sucks her thumb while she sleeps and still loves her Chewy (ratty old tattered pillowcase remnants).  She is so sweet and we love her to bits.


I MEAN JUST LOOK AT HER.


She told us that what she reeeeeeally wanted for her birthday was to have her face painted like Sting, so Penelope obliged her.


In pregnancy news, I am now 35 weeks!  Final countdown.  Next week I have my midwife appointment where she'll drop off the birth pool and we'll nail down the final plans and details.  Stuff is getting real... yikes!  I'm ready to be done being pregnant for sure (these last few babies, I've felt so much better postpartum than I have felt during pregnancy - I'm looking forward to feeling better!).  But also, I'm not entirely convinced I'm ready for birth.  I've spent less time thinking about it this time around, which I think has been healthy for me.  I'm just hoping that lack of mental preparedness doesn't come back to bite me.

I haven't been exercising - my midwife told me to stop so that I could use all my energy for just gestating, and I have actually felt a lot better the last couple of weeks as a result.  My energy is higher than it was.  I also stopped taking most of my supplements, and that has also helped me feel better.  I always end up with tons of inflammation, and even arthritis-like symptoms, if I take supplements too long, and I think that's where a lot of my back pain was coming from.  Once I stopped with those, most of my back pain went away and I felt a lot better.  I still have a lot of weakness and tiredness, but I feel better in my body for sure.  Who would have thought that not exercising and not taking my vitamins would be the key to feeling better?




Once school is officially over, I'm planning on rearranging the bedrooms and pulling out the newborn clothes.  Just a little over a week and the really-real baby prep will commence!

And just because our good life keeps trucking on, here are a few more photos from the week to send you into the weekend:


Oey got bonked, so the little girls set up an infirmary for her to recover in:  her milk, her blankie, her favorite "ice" (she is addicted to chewing on frozen teethers, even though she's not teething), and a princess dress.  She felt better in no time.



Ignore the patchy grass (it's that time of year) - we had a bonfire.



While my potatoes took up the entire table, the kids had a picnic on the floor for lunch.  They don't look too mad about it.


This girl had quite the week.  She fell over backwards out of a wagon and bonked the back of her head.  She was being pushed (too quickly) in the umbrella stroller and faceplanted when the stroller hit an uneven spot on the sidewalk.  She picked at a spot on her face until it scabbed over, and suffered various other, more mundane indignities inherent to the toddler stage.  BUT she got to wear her first ponytail out in public, so she was willing to forgive us all.



The kids set up a campsite/checkpoint at the bottom of the stairs.

And that was a very full two weeks to report on!  Today Atticus is working, and Todd is not working (he had to use up some vacation time), so it will be another strange day.  I'm going to take Todd grocery shopping with me to show him the ropes of large scale hunting and gathering, and then he said he'll lay some mulch for me in the front flower beds.  I'll do some read alouds with my remaining school kids, and then clean up the kitchen to head into the weekend.  (We always order pizza on Fridays, so in the afternoon, I give the kitchen a really good wipe down since I don't have to spend that time cooking.  I feel so much better in a clean kitchen.)  

Laurelai is hoping to watch Order of the Phoenix after the little kids go down for bed, so we'll see if I have the energy for that.  AND THEN I WILL HAVE EARNED MY WEEKEND AND WILL THEREFORE CONK OUT.  THE END.  GOOD DAY SIR.